Met her online. Need halp with planning a visit

To make it short, we met on World of Warcraft, started talking to eachother on MSN, and the relationship just took off from there.



I'm 18, she's 16. Anything wrong with that? She's very mature for her age. Around



the 5th month of us being together, we talked about meeting sometime. We both liked the idea, but since she's 16, she can't fly anywhere without her parents being alright with it, and they definitely wouldn't let her fly somewhere by herself. She wouldn't be able to afford it either. So, we settled on meeting on New Years of 2008-2009. The plan was that I was going to drive/take a bus down to her and spend New Years together. Obviously that didn't happen. I was 17 when I told my parents about her and what our plans were; they were against it, like always. "Blahblahblah you'll drive off the road into a pond or into a tree. You'll have to change a flat that you'll get in the middle of a deserted road at night and get shot and mugged. Blahblahblah you'll drive off a mountain."



I looked at the entire trip on my GPS, there were no mountains. I'd be on the highway or very public rest stops for the vast majority of the trip. My car isn't technically "mine", I paid a few thousand and my parents paid the rest, so it's in their name. So, I'll be taking a bus. I emailed her parents and told them about us, how we met, our plans to visit, etc etc. I asked if they'd be fine if I visited. They responded and basically said alright, but I'll be "strictly supervised." I'm perfectly fine with that, to be honest, if I had a kid I doubt I'd even let someone from so far away come and visit at all. All I'm expecting from the visit is to meet her and the parents.



I've been emailing her mother back and forth, I've developed a pretty good relationship with her. I asked if I could mail a few gifts for Christmas to her daughter, (aka my gf), she said sure, so I sent her a hoodie and some other miscellaneous jewelery and other things. She really liked everything, and I scored some "points" with her mother. Score.



The problem is that, unfortunately, I'm still living with my parents. They are extremely against me visiting. They somehow got the email address of my gf's mother, and emailed her in early December. That was pretty much what screwed over me visiting on New Years. I haven't heard from her mother yet about when she'd be alright with me visiting; we HAD planned on New Years. Our first year anniversary is coming up on March 9th, and it really would mean a lot to both of us if we could somehow meet then.



I emailed her mother and told her I'd like to talk to her on the phone sometime so we can figure this all out. That was two weeks ago that I sent the email, and she hasn't responded yet, and I doubt she will respond. I really would prefer to not email her again until she responds, I'd feel as if I'm sounding too "pushy", or something.



What should I do about this? March is approaching quickly, January is almost over. If we don't meet in March, we'd most likely have to wait til the summer, and we've waited for almost a year.

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TIP.....................

We all know a couple like this: After years together they still hold hands, make each other laugh and blush, get along famously, and seem to enjoy a dynamite groove the rest of us envy. But what really goes on behind the scenes? Have these two soulmates actually found their perfect match in this big wide world, or are there secrets and strategies to making sure that romantic spirit continues to flourish over time?

In order to maintain the magic and sustain the spark, happy couples know they must:

Start solid. Remember that best friend you had when you were a kid? Whether blissfully playing side-by-side in the sandbox or building an awesome fort together, you two just grooved on being in each other's presence. Happy couples share that same serendipitous groove, if in the all-grown-up world. Romantic chemistry aside, they genuinely like each other as people and truly enjoy walking down the path of life hand-in-hand.

Keep it fresh. Routines and traditions can give a couple a comforting sense of predictability that's both grounding and reassuring. But surprises and adventures are also essential to really keeping that spark alive. Happy couples make a habit of shaking things up a bit by planning weekend getaways to undiscovered destinations, saving their pennies for a dream vacation, or launching fun and ambitious projects together. Having exciting things on the calendar to look forward to and sharing new adventures together reaffirms their connectedness and refuels the romance.

Clear the air. It's perfectly natural for any couple to encounter frustrations, disappointments, and miscommunications from time to time. But if grievances go unaired, they can pile up to a mountain of resentment and put the relationship at risk. Happy couples make sure they keep the communication open, and navigate those inevitable rough spots with honesty and mutual respect. If any issues should arise that seem too big or too complex to resolve between the two of them, they'll schedule some sessions with a couples therapist to help them safely weather the storm.

Have a life. A healthy relationship consists of two individuals who each maintain a strong sense of themselves and take a genuine interest in the other. One may decide to go back to school to pursue a higher degree, while the other may get involved in a volunteer project or a photography workshop. Maintaining individual identities and pursuing individual interests ensures that there'll always be new things to share and to learn about each other.

Tune it up. Whether it be once a month or once a year, a regularly scheduled sit-down can allow for some essential upkeep and maintenance of a healthy relationship. Happy couples may agree to a periodic summit meeting to check in with one another about the overall well-being of their partnership. They may discuss what they've been appreciating about one another, what dynamics could use some tweaking, and what is on the horizon for their future as a couple. A little preventative TLC from time to time helps keep those relationship engines running smoothly.

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What Dating is All About

Dating someone is as hard as actually finding a date. To some finding a date is like a needle in a haystack; to others it is like a mountain flowing with honey. When a person is on the actual date, he tends to forget what the main point of the date is all about. People date to know more about one another and find out if they are right for each other. Thats how I view dating in my very idealistic world.

For some reasons such as sheer joy, beauty or awe of the person you are dating. The dater may tend to forget all about the characteristics or traits he or she looks for. The daters may just suddenly like the person for the simplest reason of being pretty or being able to make you feel good because she looks like a model. You must try to avoid falling into a relationship where only the surface matters.

You might be pretty vain if you do think youre happy with a relationship based on the surface only. Who wouldnt want a good looking person for a date or a relationship? However these things might fail in the long run because you havent based what you really want in the characteristics of the person. Lets just say that being beautiful is an advantage that makes a person stands out from the crowd. However it is really the characteristic and attitude of a person that should make you decide if the person is right for you.

Here is another common misconception about people. If you have the looks you are considered to be having some kind of attitude. This is because you wont need to rely having a great attitude to find yourself a date. While the people who look like the average Joes and Janes would need to have a great attitude. It may be true but not for all. We should never stereotype because by doing so, will also limit a persons chance of finding a date.

Here are the usual things or characteristics that are important to some people.

Humor is a great thing to look for in a person. Being with a humorous person helps ease the tension of the date a bit. It also makes the date more fun and enjoyable.

The eyes are the windows of the soul. Eye contact would be a great way to learn more about the emotions the other person is conveying. A person can also see the truth, honesty and understanding of a person through the eyes.

We should also look for a partner that is very understanding. It would be pretty irritating to find a judging partner. The partner should learn to accept the mistakes of the other in some cases and support him or her. This could be commonly displayed among the simplest of things. Such as where to dine, what to do or even having a great conversation.

The important thing to look for is the honesty and truth of a person. A relationship will not last very long when it is based on hidden agendas and lies. One partner may feel very jealous or have doubts about the relationship. So honesty is very important and is a hard one to develop.

It is a common misconception that people look for people like them. This might be true for some, but the more general truth is that we all just want a person that can be able to understand our own personality.

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Build Lasting Relationships

For those who are in committed relationships, it's important to take steps to ensure the longevity of your love. Usually, you only need to do very simple things to make your relationship work.

It's very important that you and your partner spend a lot of quality time together. Modern life can be very stressful and full of work, but even an hour or two of talking before going to bed can do wonders for your relationship. Most of the couples who have been together for more than 10 years owe their relationship's longevity to the fact that they make time for each other. Make a date at least once a month. It doesn't have to be in an expensive restaurant, it can be as simple as a home-cooked meal in your backyard.

Allow yourselves to build a real partnership. This means that there should be equal amounts of giving and taking for both of you. Compromises will have to be made, and one person shouldn't be "in control" of the relationship. At the same time, both of you should also have lives and activities outside the relationship, whether it's with friends, co-workers, or your extended family.

Smile at each other. Even the simple act of smiling can completely change your moods. It's something that's really needed at the end of a rough, stressful day, or even after a fight. A genuine, heartfelt smile reassures your lover of your feelings of love, respect, and appreciation.

Make sure that you have a satisfying sex life. If ever your sex life becomes dull or lacks passion, make an effort to work it out. Show your partner how to fulfill you sexually, and encourage him or her to do the same. Don't just accept having an unsatisfactory sex life - sex is a very important aspect of your relationship.

Learn how to appreciate each other. Whenever your partner is making an effort to listen to you or to show you how important you are, make sure that you show him or her how much you appreciate this. Whether you do it verbally or though your actions, showing appreciation will encourage your partner. This kind of encouragement is necessary, because it validates his or her importance in the relationship.

Don't punish each other. If your partner did something to hurt you, don't give him or her a hard time. This will only further aggravate the situation. If your partner really hurt you, especially if it's unintentional, get straight to the point and talk about it. Don't punish your lover and make him or her figure out what they did wrong. This will lead to more misunderstandings and miscommunication.

Accept the fact that some things never change and that some things do. People are very dynamic. Their personalities change a lot, and even their opinions and beliefs have the tendency to make complete turns. Be aware of the fact that some things about your partner will never change, and that some things will. Keep this in mind and learn to love your partner for who he or she is.

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Fun With Online Dating

Online dating is something that more and more people are looking into because it is relatively risk free dating. Instead of wasting your time out on the town with a date that may or may not work out, you can now look for people online and choose to interact with them for a period of time before you actually meet! Online dating is fun, safe, and a dating resource that can get you maximum exposure with minimum effort. Young and old are having a great time with online dating because you can make it a customized experience.

Online dating is usually done through dating websites, of which there are hundreds. A couple of the most popular dating websites are Yahoo Personals and www.match.com both of which have thousands of users that can all post profiles about themselves, what they are looking for, as well as the ability to interact with one another until they find a person that is just right for them. The great thing about these websites is that everyone can find someone here, as you dont have to be looking for a long term relationship to fit in, youll find people that are looking for serious and not so serious relationships on these websites.

What is great about online dating is that even when you are not online you are promoting yourself. Once you post your profile and set up your membership, your information will be available to others that are looking for a date 24 hours a day. This means that even if you and your Mr. or Ms. Right would have never crossed paths before, youll have a great chance of checking out one anothers profiles and getting to know one another online. You could be living just miles away from the one but because you dont hang out in the same places or with the same crowds, you might not meet if it werent for online dating.

While many relationships today progress much faster than most of us are comfortable with, with online dating you can choose to advance your interactions as quickly or as slowly as you are comfortable with. If you like to take your time and want to get to know people really well, you can take your time simply exchanging emails with possible online matches as long as you want, and then you can move to the phone, and then eventually you can meet in person. Online dating is a high tech and modern way to date, but it brings back some old school elements because the relationships dont advance so quickly.

Online dating doesnt cost a lot of money or take a lot of time, which makes it appealing for many. If you want to date more but you dont have time to hit the bars and clubs to meet people, meeting people online is a great way to meet people and even create lasting relationships. With so little to lose and potentially so much to gain, it is no wonder why online dating has become so popular.

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Kissing Techniques

The treaty on sexual relations indicates that passion accumulates stage of kissing; truth foreplay is made by lips. If the kiss is well, that functions like aphrodisiac for the two sexes. The kisses are an art so made well; they start many pleasant feelings in the brain. The good techniques to kiss can ensure of the positive effects on circulation of heart and blood, and besides the increased excitation will reinforce the report/ratio.

Many women will be appropriate that the kisses are more with emotion pleasant than reports/ratios because a sexual experiment is temporary but the effect of a kiss continuous to be delayed during hours together, if lips and the heart of the couple together in unison. A woman passivates who does not answer the kiss of a man announces the disinterest in the report/ratio. If the woman blocks for the breath and withdraws in maniac, blame it on the man who envisages for the pleasure of individual, without allowing a woman to derive any moment. By embracing techniques to change considerably. The best kisses are those which are memorable, but leave you haletant for more. To pay the attention so that your companion answers, and so that seems to stop it.


It is important that you do not force yourselves on the woman while embracing. In films you can see a man, in a frenzy of passion embracing lascif its lady and it obtaining lit and lip closing it with key as well. While you test it by yourself, you will see that that does not function completely well and you could be in charge of the rape of date. The life is not a film manuscript. The libido of a woman does not increase all it quickly suddenly. It obtains turned above slowly but surely.

Perfect Kiss
A smooch is the form popularized of kissing but not necessarily perfect kiss. Its lips are not only the worthy candidates for your lips. Even the back of its neck, of its interior arm, its wrist, the back of its knee, its eyebrows, the lower part of its centres and the sector between them, its belly, there is much of sectors which are meant for kisses. Since we speak about the kisses, the goal is to appreciate you and the pleasure it without doing something which is uncomfortable with it. The kisses are not a competition so that you push your language to the bottom his throat. Ni are they a durable test so that you maintained your lips closed with key. To change your kisses. To give a length sensual major kiss where you suck its lips and lick its language. But to go at the same time for softer bites of love on its cheek, neck. To again come very close to your language with its lips. To give soon the kisses to its lips, then to embrace it enclosed the eyelids, the face, and the end of its nose and then returns to its lips. When you embrace, to hold its face in your hand. To embrace, run your fingers by its hair and to cherish its face as you embrace. Also not slog too hard on the kiss. To also let carry out a certain work on your lips. If you continue to embrace it, you do not give him a chance to kiss you. Soft sensual of elasticity little nibbles on its earlobes and when you are with him, sees that you exhale (to breathe) a little air. Little air blast around the neck and the ears could be very awaking and irritating. To be sure that you whisper a romantic compliment or a bad proposal with its ears.

Follow this when you kiss:

1.Dont smoke before you kiss.

2.Not to have excessive saliva in your mouth when you embrace it. To save saliva in your mouth for some places which require moisture

3. Good smell. To plug small Cologne or after-shave lotion. The women have a pointed direction of odor. Moreover they hate the perfumes and the colognes feeling strong bus it is very impetuous with them. To thus apply an indent of small male perfume or Cologne. It surely work!

4.Remove your spects before kissing,this makes you to kiss comfortably

5.If your associate is uncomfortable with your eyes being tedious by it during the kiss, you can maintain them half closed in respect with it of the wishes.

6.Make sure your lips proves soft and juicy for your lady love.

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Why people kiss

That is to say, what happens, to the various parts of the body when two people in love join their lips in bliss? Years ago, before our biologists knew of the existence of the glands in our bodies, one writer quoted a scientist as saying that "kissing is pleasant because the teeth, jawbones and lips are full of nerves, and when the lips meet an electric current is generated."

What nonsense! what utter nonsense!
KISSING IS PLIEASANT

Once this hunger for the opposite sex evidences itself, there occurs in the human body what is known as tumescence which, in simple language, is the rhythmical contraction of the various muscles of the body together with the functioning of certain glands, just which glands science has been unable to say definitely. Gland specialists know, by performing certain operations, that the adrenal, the pituitary, the gonad and certain other glands, control the sexual behavior of human beings. It is these glands that re-act, that secrete what are known as hormones into the blood which, in turn, carries them into the various organs effected by a sexual reaction.

Therefore, it can be seen that it is the partial satisfying of the sex-hunger that makes kissing pleasurable.' Electricity is used for turning motors and lighting lamps and heating curling irons. But electricity 4oes not give complete satisfaction to the kiss. But enough of dry science!
We have ahead of us pleasurable reading of the bliss of the kiss. Now that we have learned why it is that men and women kiss, let us go into the methods used in. kissing so as to derive the most satisfaction from this most soul-appeasing of pleasures.

The only kiss that counts is the one exchanged by two people who are in love with each other. That is the first essential of the satisfying kiss. For a kiss is really the union of two soul-mates who have come together because they were made for each other. The. reason for this is that the kiss is really the introduction to love, true love. The kiss prepares the participants for the love life of the future. It is the foundation, the starting point of sexual love. And it is for that reason that the manner in which the kiss is performed is so vitally important.
There are still young women extant who believe that babies are the result of kisses Actually! this is a fact! And this condition exists because our parents, in the main, are either ignorant of the methods of explaining sex to their children or are too embarrassed to enlighten them. The result is that their children obtain their sexual information from the streets and alleys or else remain ignorant of it and believe such things as was mentioned above.

Man and woman are born to love, marry and beget children. Woman is so physically constituted that she is the one who bears the child. Man, on the other hand, is given the duty of being the protector of his wife and, after they are born, of his children. Therefore, he must always be the one who takes the initiative. He must be strong, he must be willing, he must be physically able to take care of his charges, He must be the aggressor.
It is, therefore, necessary that the man be taller than the woman. The sychological reason for this is that he must always give the impression of being his woman's superior, both mentally and especially physically. The physical reason, with which we are more concerned, is that if he is taller that his woman, he is better able to kiss her. He must be able to sweep her into his strong arms, and tower 6ver her, and look down into her eyes, and cup her chin in his fingers and 1 hen, bend over her face and plant his eager, virile lips on her moist, slightly parted, inviting ones. All of this he must do with the vigor of an assertive male. And, all of these are impossible where. the woman is the taller of the-two.
For when the situation is reversed, the kiss becomes only a ludicrous banality. The physical mastery is gone, the male prerogative is gone, everything is gone but the fact that two lips are touching two other lips. Nothing can be more disappointing

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Attitudes of girls

When I first started out learning how to meet girl, I remember that I had a feeling inside like, “I’m afraid to just walk up to a strange woman and start talking.” I thought of all kinds of things that could go wrong. “What if she has a boyfriend nearby who easily gets jealous and wants to beat me up?” “What if she says something that puts me down and makes me feel bad?” “What if she says something to someone else about me being a loser because I tried to talk to her?”

All of these different ideas combined inside of me to give me a general fear of meeting girl. I’ve since learned that none of my worst fears would come true when meeting a new woman. I’ve met hundreds and hundreds of girl over the last few years – and none (NONE!) have reacted or caused anything to happen that I couldn’t handle in the moment.

In the process I realized something very important: No tactic works on every woman. Some girls are not interested in meeting someone right now. Some girls are lesbians and have no interest in men.

Some girls are happily married or in a relationship and don’t want to meet someone new right now. Some girls are angry. Some are cold. My guess is that in a random group of 100 girls, only about 30 of them might be open to meeting someone new right now (in a romantic sense). What this means is that 70 AREN’T interested in meeting someone new. And of the 30 who are interested in meeting someone new, maybe only 15 are nice, friendly, happy people. Do you see where I’m going? If you want to be successful at meeting girls, you have to understand that many of the girls you talk to aren’t interested. Most people take things like this PERSONALLY. Instead of just moving on to the next woman, they get all uptight and feel bad about it. I’ve now learned a better way. I also learned something else that helped me dramatically.

Walking up
I learned that girls are used to being approached, flirted with, and picked up on in general by men. Even girls who are what you might call ‘average’ are approached by men on a pretty regular basis. So when you’re about to approach a woman, keep in mind that it’s not like you’re going to try something that she’s never heard of before and shock her. You may not be totally comfortable yet just walking up to any woman, but she’ll be relatively OK with it.

And remember, if she’s not interested, it’s most likely that she’s not interested in anyone right now. Of course it’s true that she might not be interested in your ‘type’ or you may have acted in a way that she didn’t like, but the fact is that no matter what happens, you’ll find that it’s no big deal.

When I first started my journey, I realized that some of the greatest memories that my friends and I have are when something bad happened to one of us. Looking back, we usually laugh about these things and make fun of each other and ourselves. So I thought about it, and I realized that getting rejected really harshly by a woman would actually be a funny thing. I imagined my best friend and I saying, “Hey, remember that time when I walked up to that girl in the mall and said “Hi”, but she told me that she doesn’t date men who look like Pee Wee Herman? Ha ha ha ha...”

Think of it this way:
If you get shut down really hard, just tell a couple of friends. They may not let you live it down, but at least you can laugh about it! (And if you have friends that won’t help you laugh about it, then you need some new ones.) Another part of the attitude equation that I realized is that different girls respond to different looks, personalities, etc. One woman might only like men who dress in suits and ties, while another might only like girls who dress like bad boy rockers. Whatever style you develop, DON’T CHANGE IT JUST BECAUSE SOME girls DON’T LIKE IT.

The price of big success is having some people dislike you. So once you find a style that works for you, stick with it, and only change it because YOU choose to do so!

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How to attract a girls?

Ask her about herself, her ambitions, her life. Be interested. It's a rare woman who wants to sit around all night listening to a man talk about himself. And the more you try to impress her with your tales of adventure, the less impressed she'll be.

Be presentable. Women are notorious accessorizers, and whether she'll admit it to you or not, you are an accessory. Other women will judge her on her choice. A clean, good-smelling man with well-fitting clothes is a real prize.

Make eye contact. A lot. And smile - in a friendly way. Don't leer.

If your are so close enough to give her a chocolate,make it as a practice that you share a chocolate daily.. A recent survey says that most of teen aged girls are adicted to chocolates much..

Be a gentleman. It's a myth that chivalry is dead, right? There are just a few women out there messing it up for the rest of us who really do like to have doors held open for us.

Learn to dance. Women will flock to you - all of them will be impressed.

Be funny without being crude. It's an art.

Compliment her. Notice her shoes or her watch - something that shows you're paying attention. We'll change our clothes six times before we leave the house; it's nice to find someone who appreciates the final choice.

It's hard for a woman not to be impressed with a man who is impressed with her. If you really like her, tell her so. You don't have to make a big deal about it, just let her know you admire her.

Build your lover a web page telling them why you love them so much. Mention special moments and add some images and cool links to topics that interest them. Surf the web with them one day and just "stumble upon it". Or have someone send them an anonymous email with the link inviting them to the page.

Contact her family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl.
For example if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted.


Create a loving nickname for your partner. This could be the name she was called by her family when she was a little girl or something that is special just for the two of you.

Give her some special gift such , Buy your partner a gold fish in a bowl and give it to her with a card saying,
“Of all the fish in the sea,
you're the fish for me!”

#Phone and cell phones are the mojor device which helps in devoloping a relationship between you and her.. There some facts to handle while talking to her too..

A general fact: for some reason we want a phone call right after we've last seen you. It's the initial separation where we get insecure. So call that night, or call the next day. Then you can take a break for a couple days if you want.

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How to get a girl you like most?

So, You like to get a girl, who is your class mate, colleague, girl at next door, a party chick or some one? You are a shy guy to start with girls? Keep this in your mind always "Girls aren't aliens to fear about". Kick your foolish shyness and fear at first.


Be a Man:
Do not degrade yourself with your inferior things. Look at the couples you see at beach, park & every where else.. If he can get a girl then why not you?

First Meet/Date/Conversation?
Buddy, You need to make her get relaxed. So, Do not stand in front of her like an escaped prisoner with rolling eyes. First relax yourself and understand the environment then start, Just say good day wishes, smile and move forward the conversation with interesting topics. There is a magic lie which always attracts a girl. Tell her that "You looks really nice. This dress perfectly suits you" end this line with a nice smile. This is your first trap.

What is your personality?
Do you able to describe about yourself with couple of lines? Do not try to makeup some fake characters into your personality. Just "Be Yourself"

Are you a Jerk or Nice guy?
Most of the girls feel nice guys are such boring personalities. Don't be a 100% funny guy always. It will create a joker impression about you instead of attractiveness.

Your conversations with a girl:
when a girl talk about something she like, an incident, a sad moment, her last summer trip, her pets or anything else, You need to follow "Shut Up and Listen" rule. Stop commenting, Stop giving suggestions, Stop giving advices, Stop arguments when she talk. Just shut up your bad mouth and listen what she says. She don't need a world's greatest idea from you when she talk something emotional. All she need is a caring person who respects what she is saying.

Be REAL:
Help an old lady cross the street. Be a role model for kids to look up to. Be kind to animals. Being considerate to others, no matter the age, gender, or species, is sure to make any girl's heart melt.

Be Talkative:
Girls like such an interesting guys who talk funny, naughty (sometimes), caring & polite. Just be social.

Know more about her:
You have to know about her most happiest/sad moments. Close friends, Family, Co-Workers, Her favorite food, her hobbies. Do not ask all of these to her like a survey guy. Just know it in different moments.

Your Thoughts:
If she say "Eminem is the only one who can rap very well. all others are pure crap!" Don't say "yes yes.. emimen is BEST.. I like him". Just say what you think really in polite way, This would be better, "Yes Eminem is nice.. But 50cent & Dr.Dre too perform nice, You must listen <50-C song name> look how great all are they.. these three guys rap nice.".

How to be an interested guy?
If she like something, then ask about her thoughts & comments about it. Let her to talk much about her favorite things. Do not let it to be a questioner session.

Learn to play at least a single musical instrument,
Learn to dance,
Have some interesting hobbies like boat riding, rock climbing,

Do not Hurt or Kid her friends:
Do not try lame jokes to kid her friends. As you are a new person to her, You need to be friendly to all of her friends too.

TRUST Yourself

First of all trust yourself, You can do it even millions of successful guys do. You lose nothing if she denies you. Just have a try learn the lesson "How to attract".

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Propose a woman

Very few events in anyone's lifetime require as much thought and preparation as marriage. People want their proposals to be the perfect point of culmination in their relationship.

Men and women both want this day to be a truly memorable moment in their lives. But it seems that there are no new ways to get married anymore because virtually everything has been done. Well, guess again.

Think about when and where you want to tell her. Is there a special place you want to be? A certain day? For example, you might want to tell her at the restaurant where you went on your first date, or on the two-month or nine-month anniversary of your first date.
Set the mood and be romantic. Buy her flowers or a romantic gift.
Look at her directly, take her hand and tell her how positive you feel about her. Give her examples of things you really like about her. Be sincere.
Tell her how you feel being with her, and how much you enjoy your time together. Be specific about what you value and appreciate about being with her.
Follow these positive statements with telling her you love her in whatever way feels best for you. For example: "I feel I've come to love you," "I realize I love you," "I feel so much love for you," "I've fallen in love with you," or simply, "I love you."

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Love at first sight!

Let's say you get lucky tomorrow and spot a Potential Love Partner. He or she is sitting on the steps reading a book. Or standing in a museum studying a painting. Or getting on the bus. Or waiting in line at the bank cash machine. You sneak a second peek. Something about the stranger revs up your internal PEA factory, and a little dollop goes squirting through your veins. Maybe it's her looks, the way he moves, something she's wearing. Her aura? Is this love at first sight? Does love at first sight even exist?

Well, that's a semantics question. Instant desire, or lust at first sight, definitely exists. However, the scientific world pretty well agrees that love at first sight is merely Monday-morning quarterbacking. A successful love affair, perhaps one leading to marriage, is retrospectively declared to be true love; whereas if one is rebuffed, it is classified . . . as infatuation.'' Medical Aspects of Human Sexuality Semantics aside, one fact remains. Any small stimulus can kick-start love. Your first moves when

Love Partner are crucial. If, from that powerful stimulus, love grows, you have every right to call it love at first sight. Nobody will argue with you. Love at first sight has survived because it is an integral part of the many popular beliefs about romantic love. Romantic love is an important cultural value to Americans. In the same way that a voodoo curse causes death only in persons who believe in its power to kill them, love at first sight truly exists for those who believe in it.

A man may be classified as a breast man, a buttocks man, or a leg man. And, although many women will insist otherwise, most women are certified butt watchers. (This is not just idle conjecture: a British study determined that these are people's favorite eyeball destinations.) But researchers have ascertained that everybody is an eye person. When you were a teenager being reluctantly or otherwise introduced to strangers, your parents probably told you, "Look right into their eyes."

And then they would tell you in no uncertain terms that any of the aforementioned anatomical locations were strictly off limits. Powerful eye contact immediately stimulates strong feelings of affection. This was proved once and for all in a study called "The Effects of Mutual Gaze on Feelings of Romantic Love." Researchers put forty-eight men and women who didn't know each other in a big room. They gave them directions on how much eye contact to have with their partners during casual conversation. Afterward, the researchers asked each participant how he or she felt about the various people they had spoken with.

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Let's say that in less technical language

Locking eyeball to eyeball with the attractive stranger helps put the match to the flame of love. Why does eye contact have such fiery consequences? Anthropologist Helen Fisher says it is basic animal instinct. Direct eye contact triggers "a primitive part of the human brain, calling forth one of two basic emotions—approach or retreat." Unrelenting eye contact creates a highly emotional state similar to fear. When you look directly and potently into someone's eyes, his or her body produces chemicals like phenylethylamine, or PEA, that jolts the sensation of being in love. Thus, making strong, almost threateningly intense eye contact with your Quarry is one of the first steps in making him or her fall in love with you. People look lingeringly at sights they like and quickly avert their eyes from those they don't. We enjoy gazing for long, lazy hours into a cozy fire, yet our hands jerk up to shield our eyes from an atrocious movie scene. It's the same when looking at people. We gaze lovingly at our lovers, yet avert our eyes from unpleasant, ugly, or dull people. When someone bores us, the first part of our body to escape is our eyes. I'm acutely aware of this phenomenon during my speeches. Whenever I drone on too long about a particular point, audience members bury their noses in their notes. Inspecting their manicures takes on prime importance. Some even nod off. When I get back on track, their eyes flutter up like butterflies returning to the sunshine after a rainstorm.

Another, almost opposite, factor that blocks good eye contact is shyness. The more someone overwhelms us, the more we avoid his or her eyes. Very low-ranking employees often avert their gaze from the big boss. If we meet someone extraordinarily handsome, beautiful, or accomplished, we tend to do the same. In my seminars, I strive to make eye contact with everyone in the audience. However, if there is an especially handsome man in the sea of faces, I often find myself avoiding his gaze. I look into the eyes of everybody but him. Then, realizing the folly of my ways, I force myself to look into the eyes of Very Attractive Male, and BLAM! My heart skips a beat. I sometimes lose my train of thought. I stutter. Powerful stuff, this eye contact.

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How Much Eye Contact Does It Take to Imitate Love?

A British scientist determined that, on the average, when talking, people look at one another only to 60 percent of the time. This is not enough to rev up the engines of love at first sight. While he was still a graduate student at the University of Michigan, a prominent psychologist named Zick Rubin became fascinated with how to measure love. Later, at Harvard and Brandeis, the romantic young researcher produced the first psychometrically based scale to determine how much affection couples felt for each other. It became known as Rubin's Scale and, to this day, many social psychologists use it to determine people's feelings for each other. In his study on the ''Measurement of Romantic Love," Zick Rubin found that people who were deeply in love gaze at each other much more when talking and are slower to look away when somebody intrudes in their world.17 He confirmed this through a trick experiment. He asked dating couples a long series of questions so he could first rate the pairs on how much they loved each other. The couples, unaware of their rating, were then put in a waiting room and told, "The experimenter will be with you shortly to start the experiment." Unbeknownst to them, that was the experiment. Hidden cameras recorded how much time the couples spent staring into each other's eyes. The higher the couple had scored on the first test, the more time they spent looking at each other. The less love they felt for each other, the less time they made eye contact.


To give your Quarry the subliminal sense that the two of you are already in love (a self-fulfilling prophecy), dramatically increase your eye contact while the two of you are chatting. Push it up to 75 percent of the time or more if you want to get the PEA gushing through his or her veins. The extra seconds of eye contact speak silent volumes. To a woman, the volumes will read,"Beautiful lady, I am intrigued by you. I am fascinated by what you are saying." A man might interpret the increased eye contact as, "I'm ravenous for you. I can't wait to tear your clothes off and have you make mad passionate love to me." You must, however, look right into your Quarry's eyes if you want to excite those feelings of love at first sight. Not at his eyebrows, not at the bridge of her nose—look right into those baby blues, browns, grays, or greens. Pretend you're admiring the optic nerve behind the eyeballs. Wisdom for the ages gleaned from The King and I is "Whistle a happy tune, and you will be happy." Likewise, give off signals of the two of you being in love, and your Quarry will feel sensations of love

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Types of kiss

Your relationship can increase to the next stage if you kiss with passionate desire. Below are some of the spiciest kissing methods which can be a boom to your relationship. So find the types of kisses your partner might like and start practicing.


The polished kiss - based on the kiss of green woodpecker but with more hesitation in it: if I to embrace on the cheek “given” or should I just make a noise of low light of the kiss beside the ear?


The kiss of the beginner- In this sexy kiss, you gently make your brush of lips against her lips. You can also whirl your lips slowly around his lips. To slacken, let go to allow your lips to wander above and around its extase pure of mouth….



The opened eyes kiss - those people are always on a “watch”. Got to be in control. Connected to reality. Can not and would not let this experience swap them away. There is no fear on “crashing down” as they never left the ground. Those people and the suspicious, careful controlled type.


The French kiss - passion. Lasts for ever. Involves all parts of the mouth and excites the rest of the body. The point of this kiss is a “meeting” between the two tongues. The French kiss is a kind of “trespassing” to one’s privacy and can sometimes stimulate a rejection especially if the partner is the shy/afraid/close type.

The passage kiss-in love It is the manner that you can mix the eroticism in food and vice versa. You pass something in a sensual way to your in love-like a chocolate, an ice, a fruit etc You must gently hold it between your lips and make its mouth touch the piece which you have. Then with your language, to gently push the article in its mouth.


Eastern Swirl and Poke Kiss-You allow your lips to swirl and poke around the body of your woman.


The overall kiss - Starts with the mouth, goes to the cheeks, the nose, the forehead and sometimes further.


The vacuum kiss - A passion kiss that might hurt. It is a kiss the kind of “arguing” with the partner - my place or yours? It is like the kisser is trying to swallow the partner - not so much for love as for lust.


Lush Lap Kiss-Your lips dangerously pass very close to close to the skin of your in love. After separation of your lips, you must use a company, a slow covering of the language tightened with its flesh or her lips. This kiss puts to you in the order and gives the sexy vibes to the lady who wants that its man takes the head.


The woodpecker kiss - The name says it all. Very economic, quick and sometimes even irritating.

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How to Impress a Girl

Be well-groomed. Brush your teeth, floss, shower, wash your hair, and apply acne medicine (if you have a problem with your skin) daily. Don't wear your pants off your butt, often called "sagging", it's not that attractive to the majority of girls. This is essential if you are even going to approach an attractive girl. Wear clean, attractive clothes (if in doubt, get an older sister or close female friend to help you in this department).Don't wear skin tight clothes either.

Have a great attitude. Be fun to hang around with, easy to laugh with, and be outgoing. Just don't be full of yourself. Don't try to impress everyone - girls like humble guys. At the same time, a sense of humor is always a plus.

Show respect. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they will be reassured that you will treat them right. Be kind to all.

Have good conversations. Don't talk about how you beat the King Black Dragon in Runescape... unless you know them well enough that you know they are at least semi-interested (otherwise, it's just a big jumble to her). Try to aim for you both to be speaking 50% of the time, but make sure that you are saying something worthwhile; it's not attractive when only one person talks endlessly.

Show interest in her - let her talk. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about common interests. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. but not in that stalker kind of way. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. This engages her in the conversation. When in doubt, compliment her.

Try flirting! If you both make eye contact, do not be the one to look away, but do not stare for too long. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile. She may look away and she might blush a little. Be careful though; you don't want to stare her down. A good move is to look away, and if she likes you she will shoot you glances. Watch for that. And be courtious. Open doors. Give Gifts. Do kind things. Girls love that.

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How to Impress a Girl (2)

Respect her friends and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation and yours and she'll possibly dump you. Of course, her friends are going to tell her that you trash talked her. Hopefully then it will work both ways - she will be tolerant of your friends. Be careful not to compliment her friends too much, however. Example: You may say "Your friends seem cool. We should hang out with them and my friends some time, I think they'd get along". You may not say "Sally is so hot. She has the nicest eyes"

Have your friends be nice to her It's a fantastic thing when your friends don't make a total fool of you. Warn them ahead of time and avoid topics pertaining to embarrassing moments of your past or awkward jokes that make very little sense.

Be polite to her parents. Be kind to everyone, especially them. Don't be too over-the-top charming with the parents, however, or they'll think that you have something to hide.

Don't criticize her. Unless she asks for constructive criticism. And even then she probably wants you to compliment her.

Be romantic, but not over the top. If you've been dating for a while you may attempt a grand romantic gesture (note: "A while"=a month MINIMUM) otherwise, you'll look like a stalker.

Start talking to her casually. If you don't know her, make friendly conversation. Ask for the time, and/or compliment her watch.

Do not play "hard to get". Sure, you'll get their attention for a day or two then after a while, the girl will end up frustrated or think that you hate her for whatever reason, and she'll think you don't find interest in her anymore. Or if she likes a guy who's like that, her friends might not like you because you're acting like a jerk (this happens way too much).

Be careful with what you say. Remember, Hotty McHotterson is not your pal Lenny. Do not discuss bodily functions in her presence, or make jokes of a sexual nature unless she starts doing so.

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